Last week I had the opportunity to speak at an event, to a number of people and if I am honest public speaking isn’t my thing at all (something about being centre of attention that doesn’t make me feel completely at ease) but i do enjoy sharing! I believe everyone has something to share with the world……so yeah let’s share more often 🙂
I didn’t quite know what i wanted to share but i knew i wanted it to focus on ‘Vision’. I was inspired by a speech i watched by the late Dr Myles Munroe. Since watching that speech i realised some things, some thoughts and some people that my life centred on had to change, or at least alter somewhat.
Dr Myles Munroe said that vision will choose your friends! Once you decide where you want to go, in your life, it decides your company! I have very few friends in my life, and to be honest I don’t want anymore, as I find it difficult enough to ensure I spend time with them all. A friend is anyone who is willing, or even better, committed, to help you get to your destiny. He goes on to say that “A lot of you don’t know how dangerous your company is. If in your group you are the smartest one in your group you are in the wrong group.” People who are going nowhere want you to go with them. They don’t want you to leave the group!
Yes, definitely different to what I normally post about, but I suppose the takeaway from this post is that “it’s OK to move on. You owe it to yourself to move on. You owe it to yourself to be happy with the relationships you have. You are in control.”
The post by the minimalists about letting go of shitty relationships goes deeper into this topic– its a must read!
Be happy! x