“What?!?!“, I said.
You can imagine my face when a friend of mine asked me this question in broad daylight among a sea of people.
Then it dawned on me.
She wasn’t asking to be nosey or maybe even rude, she genuinely wanted to know, so that she could have an idea what to expect when it was her turn.
If I was honest, I too, was a little curious about what would happen too but I guess I was to shy to ask as no one really talks about it. The only thing you have to go on is what you see on TV which we all know is made-up!
So today I thought it would be interesting to address this question head on (as embarrassing as it may seem).
Now, no matter what religion, culture or background you are, expectations for the wedding night are high – right? The goal supposedly is to have the greatest sex of your life in the poshest hotel room you’ve ever stayed in – all while managing to keep your eyes open after a frightfully exhausting day.
But having done some research that’s not always how things pan out. In fact at least 25 percent of couples don’t even have sex on their wedding night, because they were too drunk or tired. And even the couples who make up the 25 percent have admitted that their wedding night wasn’t their best time between the sheets by far! Sorry to burst your bubble!
According to some of my unnamed married friends, who have been kind enough to share some of their stories of their wedding night, they can attest to this;
“We went to bed, then woke up and then cuddled. We were just far too tired to do the deed.”
“We got back to the hotel room quite late but my wife being my wife wanted to please me, so she dressed up in some sexy lingerie she got as a gift and then proceeded to crawl into bed. We ate some leftovers that were packed for us then we slept. It was magical.”
“By the time, my husband was able to undo all the buttons on my wedding dress, I was literally half asleep, the next thing I know it was 7am and we had only a few more hours before we had to check out from the hotel. So we didn’t do the deed on the wedding night but made up for that in the morning. No regrets.”
And as for myself I am way too embarrassed to share the full details of mine, but let’s just say although we were tired having left our wedding later than planned, we had a lot of fun!
What about you? What are your expectations or stories? Please do share below, I would love to hear 🙂
Be happy. x